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Monday, March 20, 2017

Tips To Combat Emotional Eating

I am an emotional eater. Always have been. And it is something that I have learned to live with. It will never go away. But what I have gained over the past couple of years is HOW to manage my emotional eating so that I am not a victim to it anymore and so I can choose when I want to eat a sweet treat vs I have to eat it to help me feel better. 

Even just a few years ago while I was going through what became my second miscarriage, I was eating my feelings. Any news I got regarding that pregnancy, every couple of days after a blood draw, I would go and get an ice cream cone in a waffle cone from a local shop. In just 7 weeks I gained 15 pounds. From ice cream and not caring what I was putting into my body, even though I was pregnant. I wanted ice cream. So I ate it. But that miscarriage was really the turning point for me. Because a couple weeks after that miscarriage, I joined the gym. And a couple weeks after that I signed up for my first 5k race. And a week after that I participated in my first 5k race and met Janet who is now one of my closest friend and helped inspire me to be a coach! 
If you struggle with emotional eating. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! And it will take time to overcome it and learn to handle it. And just like any addict, you have to learn to live with it every day and ultimately make better choices when you have a "emotion" type of day that triggers a binge attack.

This lesson is coming straight from my 30 Days To A Healthy Lifestyle Change Program workbook in Week 3! Which is all about making a healthy mindset change! Check it out and get a sneak peek into my workbook!

As you begin to improve your health your emotions will also improve, but that doesn’t mean you're going to be free an clear from emotional eating. It may still pop up no matter how many improvements you’ve been making. 

The next time you find yourself trying to feed your emotions, take these steps instead. Ask yourself: 

What emotion am I trying to feed? 
Am I bored? 
Am I Stressed? 
Am I Angry? 

It’s ok to have these feelings. Sit with them and acknowledge them. But the goal is to make healthy swaps and learn the steps to help you not fall into the same unhealthy mental pattern you have been in. 

Ask yourself:

What is your biggest trigger for emotional eating? 

What action steps can you make right now that will help the situation causing your distress? 

Next, find something else to fill that void…Here are some ideas to try:



  • go for a walk
  • call a friend
  • workout
  • take a bubble bath
  • light some candles
  • create a dream board or vision board
  • revisit your goals
  • read a book
  • get lost on Pinterest
  • meditate
  • go for a pedicure
  • do yoga
  • google motivational quotes
  • pick out your goal outfit to reward yourself with at the end of this challenge
  • watch a funny movie
  • write in your journal
  • look up new healthy recipes
  • write a thank you note to someone who made your day
  • reconnect with an old friend on Facebook
  • clean your house
  • window shop at the mall



Make a list RIGHT NOW of 10 things you can do to help fight against emotional eating. And the next time you are having a hard day, pull out this list and try out a few of the ideas on it. Make a note if it worked or not. And keep adding to the list of new things you can do to help you next time when you need it.

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Friday, March 17, 2017

Biggest Loser Pancakes

Who watched The Biggest Loser? A HUGE component to what the contestants are doing to make their amazing transformations is they are totally changing the way they eat. Because really, if you want to lose weight, look at what you are eating! Want to try one of their breakfast recipes? Check out this easy recipe for healthier pancakes using oatmeal and egg whites.

BIGGEST LOSER PANCAKES

Ingredients: 
6 egg whites
1 cup rolled oats, uncooked
1 cup cottage cheese
2 teaspoons sugar
1 teaspoon cinnamon
1 teaspoon vanilla

Directions: 
In a blender, blend all ingredients until smooth. Heat a griddle or large non-stick skillet over medium-low heat. Spray with non-stick cooking spray. For each pancake pour 1.4 cup of batter onto skillet. Flip when they start to bubble.
Cook until golden brown.
Repeat with remaining batches spraying pan as needed.
Makes aprox. 10 pancakes

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Tuesday, March 14, 2017

Mom and Baby Workout Tips

I'm a busy mom of 3 kids. And with a 2 year old and 5 month home with me full time, and the 5 year old at school. I have to plan ahead of time when I will get my workouts in. My prime time right now is when I put my 2 youngest down for mommy quiet time somewhere between 12:30 and 1:30pm. But not every day goes to plan. And I have to get creative. This past weekend, little miss Elyse decided she didn't want to nap as long as we had intended. And with a late workout time and early nap wake up...I was left with exercising with her. And it proved to be very entertaining for both of us. She had fun watching me go back and forth, and you can see it in the video. She loved being part of my routine and "flying"! As hard as it is to exercise with a baby, and find that time just for us moms, sometimes we don't get it. That doesn't mean you don't exercise. That means you just include them with you. Take a peek at our workout below doing 21 Day Fix Lower Fix! 

 

6 Tips For Working Out With Baby
1) Slow down at watch your baby. Some moves you might have to slow down for the safety of your baby, or to help them not puke all over you. If you are going up and down, and you just fed them then you might end up covered in milk. Just slow down just a hair and watch your baby's cues. 

2) Be safe. Be sure to always properly support your baby. Try not to do anything too difficult or unbalanced. If you struggle with balancing prior to holding your baby, best not to do a balance move, like a split squat, until you are more comfortable.

3) Use proper form. Don't lose your form because you are holding your baby. Feel your body as you are doing the move. If you feel like you are losing form to compensate holding your baby, try doing the same move but with your baby on the floor or in a safe place near you.
4) Play games with your baby. Babies love peek-a-boo. Try to make it fun and interesting for them. Talk to them. Count in a silly voice. Let them feel involved. Especially if they are watching you. 

5) Switch up what you are doing. Go from holding your baby, to them on the floor in front of you, then in a swing, then back to holding and so forth. You don't have to hold your baby the whole time, unless you want to.

6) Above all, have fun. Let them see you laugh, and enjoy it. Because you are instilling in to them, even at a young age, a love and desire to exercise. Be the example to them. Even as they continue to grow! 
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Monday, March 13, 2017

GET OFF THE SCALE! Why You Need To Stop Weighing Yourself

This comparison just goes to show that the scale doesn't matter. 2008, before babies to now, after 6 pregnancies, and 3 babies. I weigh 1 pound heavier now than I did in 2008, but look totally different. I feel totally different too. It isn't the angle. I finally feel confident in my own skin. In 2008, I was so depressed about not being able to get pregnant. I was hiding my emotions and eating whatever I could because I just didn't care.
Our 2 Disney Cruises. Both times cropping my belly out of the photo because I was so embarrassed about how I looked.
In most of my pictures I cropped myself to hide my belly. To modify how I look. So I don't have many full length pictures of me at my heaviest without children. I hated how I looked. These are some of my favorite memories from trips and I despised how I looked. Now...I am so proud of how I look.
After our second Disney cruise it still took another 2 years before I finally decided to start working on me. I found a trainer, supporter, and started to excessively exercise to lose weight. Thus started my first step into who I am now as a coach and mentor! Now, I have learned it takes 30 minutes of effective exercise and healthy choices with what I am eating 80% of the time.

I have been there. Stuck, frustrated, depressed because I didn't think there was a way out. But now, after years! I finally feel like I found the answer. Daily super dense nutrition, using Shakeology, to help me control my cravings, work as my multivitamin probiotics and enzymes combined with only 30 minutes of effective exercise and I am feeling better than ever. Strong and proud of who I am and how I look, even though I am 241 pounds. I want the same for you! All it takes is to decide you are ready to begin. Let's chat if you are ready to start the first step in your healthy lifestyle change!

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Saturday, March 11, 2017

Goal Setting For Success Group


There is still time to join my #goaldigger group! Imagine setting goals over the next 3 weeks and finally using a system that helps you reach those goals! This IS step 4 in a healthy lifestyle change. Goal Setting For Success.

WHAT WE ARE COVERING: 
Weekly Goal setting. Finding goals that you want to crush and build on over the course of the month.

SUPPLEMENTARY MATERIALS: 
Guides, workbooks, tips, and tools to help you stay on track, daily motivation and accountability. One on One support from me. Community support.

ACCESS TO MY EXCLUSIVE FACEBOOK GROUP: 
Private FB group. This gives you access to me to ask questions, request feedback, etc. I'll be active in this group DAILY. Weekly LIVE videos.
YOUR INVESTMENT: 
Option 1:
Beachbody On Demand Annual All Access Pass Bundle with Shakeology and color coded nutrition containers: $199
---INCLUDES: Access to over 40 full workout programs and hundreds of exercises to chose from for an entire year, all of their nutrition guides, trainer tips, bonus and any new workout program released. First 30 day supply of Shakeology in your choice of flavors (chocolate, strawberry, vanilla, cafe latte, vegan chocolate, vegan tropical strawberry) Color coded nutrition fix container system. 

Option 2: 
Beachbody On Demand Annual All Access Pass Standalone: $99.95
---INCLUDES: Access to over 40 full workout programs and hundreds of exercises to chose from for an entire year, all of their nutrition guides, trainer tips, bonus and any new workout program released.
 TO ORDER choose the standalone plan: Beachbody On Demand Standalone Annual All Access Pass

Both options will get you lifetime access in my exclusive group and access to content I release for it. Me as your coach with one on one support, email support any time.

** ACT NOW **
First 5 people to order by Sunday evening, March 12, 2017, by 11:59pm, will receive a 30 minute 1:1 goal strategy session with me to get you started for success.

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Thursday, March 9, 2017

Elyse Cheyenne: 5 Months

 I don't want to be writing another one of these because that means she is growing up. Getting older. And it is going by way too quickly. I love having a little baby in the house, and Elyse is such a great little baby! Boy howdy this month has been the month of growth, she had her 3 month growth spurt a month late, and PERSONALITY! Girlfriend has quite the fun personality. She is mostly serious but now she is starting to giggle and laugh and it is the cutest thing! And notice this month, her main pictures with the quilt made by my mom, she is all smiles and giggles!

 STATS: 
~13 pounds. (Matt weighed her on the scale with him.)

She still loves to watch her brothers and is actually starting to try to move and get up on her knees. She isn't officially up on her knees but you can see she is trying to figure it out. Before we know it, she is going to be hot on their heels chasing after them! Which of course they will love! She still won't roll from back to front. She likes to chill on her tummy and watch more than anything. 


And let's just talk about the fact of how much of a daddy's girl she is. She prefers to be held by him when he is home. She just relaxes into him. When he is home, I am just the food source to her. But daddy. She loves her daddy! Most of the pictures at her "watch me grow" session of her smiling are because of Matt because she was all eyes for him! And Matt just soaks it all up. He will deny how much he loves it if you ask him but man, he is a sucker for her! Which he should be! 

Ready for picture overload? Here are some of my faves from this past month. Have fun!







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Tuesday, March 7, 2017

Fitness Goals Require Patience


For years I would look for the latest fad diet to get me quick results. Diets that promised me, in just 2 weeks you will lose X amount of weight. The fat will just melt off. Eat 500 calories and you will lose X amount of weight. Exercise for X amount of hours and you will lose weight.

And I still hear it today from friends and customers. "I wasn't seeing any change..." or "I gained weight, this isn't working!" and before they have a chance for their body to change, they stop. DON'T STOP! You have to give your body time to realize what the crap you are doing to help it. It takes time for your body to detox, and get the crap out of your system. If you are exercising you are strengthening your muscles and they will start to grow before they start to lean out. It takes time. BE PATIENT! 
A lifestyle change isn't about the latest fad diet. Quick fix or fast results. This is about finding a true change that works for you. This week I'm sharing my 5 Simple Steps to a lasting healthy lifestyle change to help. Some things that I do, might not work for you. But others might work. that is why we are all working together because it takes support and a team. Because we all want the same thing. To feel better inside and out. Look better. And BE HEALTHIER! But always remember to be patient! True change takes time to show you how it is truly working! Ready to join the party? CLICK HERE for the link to join AFTER you sign up to get your FREE GIFT from me! Link is provided to send the request to join my Private community. You are worth it to not give up. To reach your goals! 

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Monday, March 6, 2017

5 Months: Postpartum Update

Exercise: I am still doing a combo of 21 Day Fix and 21 Day fix Extreme. I started adding Extreme in half way through last month, but only on some of the workouts like pilates, plyometrics, and upper fix extreme. I've been streaming all of my workings using the Beachbody On Demand with the all access pass. 

Weight: Pre-pregnancy weight:237.7. Weight morning of birth: 264.8 (I'm just going to say 265 now because come on it really is!) Current weight March 1: 241.7. I lost a total of 2.8 pounds. I was aiming for min of 2 pounds lost, max of 4. I didn't lose a lot of inches, but I did lose some. And this month with the added strength training and increasing my weights I am feeling pretty great. 

March Goals: I am still aiming to lose 1 pound a week since I am exclusively breastfeeding. 4 pounds would be great by the end of the month. I don't think we will start Elyse on solids this month, as she is only 5 months old. So it will be another month before I can kick my weight loss into over drive. I think that that is a safe amount to lose without sacrificing my supply but also making sure I am eating enough "good stuff". Goal for eating is to follow the meal plan 90% of the time, allowing 1 meal a week to be not what I would normally eat. In all honestly, the accountability from sharing my journey and in my groups is what is keeping me going everyday. I have a natural drive to exercise and eat right, but I have even more of a kick to just KICK BUTT and show everyone that it is possible to lose weight while breastfeeding. (interested in joining my private support groups? Send me an email or comment below!)
I am starting my certified personal training course in just another week! I am so excited. So being able to find study time, and doing the right kind of studying is another goal of mine for this month! I do have BIG goals to reach by the end of the year, and passing this certification is one of them. But I also want to look the part. Which means I need to lose more weight. My goal is to lean out my muscles and reduce my body fat % and to do that, I have to lose weight on the scale! I am excited but nervous about this course! But also very intrigued! I can't wait to share more tips on this blog once I do pass the certification!

TOMORROW is day 1 of my 5 Steps To A Healthy Lifestyle Change Challenge week in my FREE private Facebook group if you are interested in joining us please visit THIS PAGE to get a free gift just for you and the link is provide to join the group! It's not too late to join and I would love to have you in the group! 


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Thursday, March 2, 2017

National Read Across America Day: Top Pick for Moms

In honor of today as the National Read Across America Day Mason and his classmates will be reading throughout the day. Mostly Dr. Seuss books I believe since he was encouraged to bring his favorite book with him and of course it is a Dinosaur related Dr. Seuss Book. But I wanted to encourage you today to pick up a book and read for a good 30 minutes! And not just any book, but a book that will help you feel strong, empowered, sexy, confident and like a total badass that can accomplish anything! Here are my favorite picks to check out, and most can be ordered on Amazon Kindle if you are in to that thing. Always be sure to support your local library too as these books are also often carried there!

Girl Confident: There is nothing sexier than a confident woman in this world (only available on Kindle Unlimited)

This book helps you to realize that if you believe in yourself, you are unstoppable. This is a tongue-in-cheek guide for millennial women who are embracing a journey to find themselves. The author is from Mongolia but she earned her bachelor's degree in business at University of Colorado. After graduation, she moved to Seattle to find a job and recently she moved back to Mongolia. You will find out about what she has learnt so far about life and everything including dating in a digital age, travelling, surviving in a foreign country and how she learnt to love working out when there was nothing she hates more than exercising. The book also includes topics from finding confidence, getting over rejections, personal finance, and finding your strength after a break up. This book is perfect for anyone who is going through times ;-)


Brené Brown- Rising Strong: The Reckoning. The Rumble. The Revolution.

Social scientist Brené Brown has ignited a global conversation on courage, vulnerability, shame, and worthiness. Her pioneering work uncovered a profound truth: Vulnerability—the willingness to show up and be seen with no guarantee of outcome—is the only path to more love, belonging, creativity, and joy. But living a brave life is not always easy: We are, inevitably, going to stumble and fall.

It is the rise from falling that Brown takes as her subject in Rising Strong. As a grounded theory researcher, Brown has listened as a range of people—from leaders in Fortune 500 companies and the military to artists, couples in long-term relationships, teachers, and parents—shared their stories of being brave, falling, and getting back up. She asked herself, What do these people with strong and loving relationships, leaders nurturing creativity, artists pushing innovation, and clergy walking with people through faith and mystery have in common? The answer was clear: They recognize the power of emotion and they’re not afraid to lean in to discomfort.

Walking into our stories of hurt can feel dangerous. But the process of regaining our footing in the midst of struggle is where our courage is tested and our values are forged. Our stories of struggle can be big ones, like the loss of a job or the end of a relationship, or smaller ones, like a conflict with a friend or colleague. Regardless of magnitude or circumstance, the rising strong process is the same: We reckon with our emotions and get curious about what we’re feeling; we rumble with our stories until we get to a place of truth; and we live this process, every day, until it becomes a practice and creates nothing short of a revolution in our lives. Rising strong after a fall is how we cultivate wholeheartedness. It’s the process, Brown writes, that teaches us the most about who we are.

Andrea Owen- 52 Ways To Live a Kick-Ass Life: BS-Free Wisdom to Ignite Your Inner Badass and Live the Life You Deserve

Like many women, Andrea Owen always lived life on the sidelines, watching each day pass by without ever catching a glimpse of the happiness she yearned for--until the day she had enough. She realized that she had to take action and step out of the box she had created for herself if she really wanted the best life possible. And now, as a celebrated life coach, she shows thousands of women how to take the reins, create an actionable plan for their goals, and finally reach their full potential.

In this powerful book, Owen guides you through her acclaimed strategies for creating a more fulfilling life. Each goal-orientated lesson empowers you to take control of the barriers that keep you from achieving the love and success you desire. From breaking the unrewarding cycle of people pleasing to dealing with unsupportive friends, this book approaches the problems you face with a candid look at why you aren't satisfied--and how to fix it. Owen's life-changing wisdom helps you uncover your self-limiting beliefs as well as push you out of your comfort zone by zeroing in on the most difficult issues. Never one to sugarcoat the truth, she holds you accountable for your actions while offering expert advice for knocking down that cynical inner-voice and loving yourself wholeheartedly.

With 52 Ways to Live a Kick-Ass Life, you will shut off your internal auto-pilot; kick empty expectations to the curb; and live a bigger, gutsier life.


Jen Sincero- You Are A Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life

In this refreshingly entertaining how-to guide, #1 New York Times Bestselling 
Author and world-traveling success coach, Jen Sincero, serves up 27 bite-sized chapters full of hilariously inspiring stories, sage advice, easy exercises, and the occasional swear word. If you're ready to make some serious changes around here, You Are a Badass will help you: Identify and change the self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors that stop you from getting what you want, blast past your fears so you can take big exciting risks, figure out how to make some damn money already, learn to love yourself and others, set big goals and reach them - it will basically show you how to create a life you totally love, and how to create it NOW.

By the end of You Are a Badass, you'll understand why you are how you are, how to love what you can't change, how to change what you don't love, and how to use The Force to kick some serious ass.

If you're wanting to kick some serious ass in the money department (you wanna?) and start making the kind of dinero you ain't never made before, pre-order the next book in the series that's all about your financial badassery: You Are a Badass at Making Money: Master the Mindset of Wealth, coming in April, 2017 from Viking Press.


Jillian Michaels- Unlimited: A 3-Step Plan for Achieving Your Dreams

Many self-help books offer a lot of new age platitudes and sappy mantras:

Just love yourself.


See the glass as half full.


Believe it and it will come.


Really? That’s not how it works, and you know it. A lifetime’s worth of struggle is not overturned in a small moment of positive thinking. But if you have the right attitude—attitude and skills—you can and will accomplish anything and everything you want. This book gives you both, attitude and action. By its end you will have all the tools you need to change your life. No hype. No false promises. 

You will learn to:
• Cultivate your passion and embrace your uniqueness to create a purpose-filled life . . .on your own terms.

• Transform your suffering into peace, wisdom, and strength.

• Work through fear, worry, shame, and negative self-talk to blast through obstacles and create self-confidence, self-esteem, and a healthy self-image.

• Take powerful, informed, deliberate actions to make your dreams a reality.

Forget surviving: it’s your time to thrive. You do have the ability and potential to achieve unlimited health, wealth, and happiness. Getting there won’t all be easy—nothing worthwhile ever is—but take this journey and your life will change dramatically. Your possibilities are unlimited, and your life is waiting for you to break free and claim it

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Wednesday, March 1, 2017

5 Simple Steps To A Healthy Lifestyle Change - FREE CHALLENGE

Hey Guys! I am so excited to invite you to my brand new FREE 5 day challenge in my Private Connect The Dots To Your Fitness, Health and Life Group next Monday, March 6.

We will be focusing on how to create a lasting healthy lifestyle change with LIVE videos!

Here's a glimpse to what we will be learning:

  • Weekly Meal Planning With A Purpose
  • Weekly Family and Activity Planning
  • Making A True Mindset Change From Dieting To Lifestyle Change
  • Goal Setting For Success
  • Finding The Right Motivation To Continue Long Term
I am so excited to present this to you. It wasn't until I put these 5 changes together that I started to see results on the scale and mentally. 

WANT TO BE PART OF THE FUN? You get a FREE GIFT TOO! CLICK HERE to request your free Clean Eating Guide to get you started today with tips on how to transition to clean eating in your household and there is also a link to request to join the group! 
Oh and if you have friends that would benefit from this challenge, be sure to invite them too! Just send them THIS LINK for them to get their free gift too and to request to join! The more, the merrier!
Want more daily motivation and inspiration? Click here . You'll get a FREE COPY of my CLEAN EATING GUIDE to help you get started NOW to connect the dots to your health, fitness and life! Plus join my FREE private group to give you that daily motivation to stay on track! Don't forget to follow me on INSTAGRAM and FACEBOOK.
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